NOT to the expectations, (because all my life i live with so many expectations, i dream BIG but im a very simple person living a very simple life! i just want to prove something for myself
I REALLY WANT TO BE A LAWYER!) my point is through our own inspirations.
(my little one,my good friends around me and the rest of my family)
i realized that "Life is a Lesson! You'll Learn it when your Through..."
I will never forget this movie! I cried out loud inside the movie house!!! one of the best movie ive ever seen! I Am Sam is a 2001 drama film that tells a story about an autistic father and his efforts to retain custody of his daughter.
The film was directed by Jessie Nelson and stars Sean Penn with Michelle Pfeiffer, Dakota Fanning, Dianne Wiest, Loretta Devine, Richard Schiff, Laura Dern and Brent Spiner and was written by Kristine Johnson and Jessie Nelson. The film also features three people, with disabilities, who are playing themselves: Brad Silverman, Joe Rosenberg, and Brian Bialick, all of them are in a group called L.A. GOAL (Greater Opportunities for the Advanced Living), a social organization that deals with adults with developmental disabilities.
Sam Dawson (Sean Penn), an autistic man living in Los Angeles, is single-handedly raising his daughter Lucy (Dakota Fanning), whom he fathered from a homeless woman who wanted nothing to do with Lucy and left him the day of her birth. Although Sam provides a loving and caring environment for the 7-year-old Lucy, she soon surpasses her father's mental capacity. Questions arise about Sam’s ability to care for Lucy and a custody case is brought to court.
Sam is a man with a mental age of 7 who is well adjusted and has a great support system consisting of four similarly developmentally disabled men. His neighbor Annie (Dianne Wiest), a piano-player and agoraphobic, befriends Sam and takes care of Lucy when Sam cannot.
Sam works at Starbucks busing tables. Sam is popular with the customers, whom he addresses by name and favorite coffee. His job gets difficult when Lucy starts grabbing objects, making a woman spill iced coffee down her shirt. In a humorous, but innocent exchange, Sam tries to remove an ice cube from the startled woman's cleavage. Sam then brings Lucy to his neighbor and baby Lucy croons, "Annie!" Sam says, "Her first word was Annie." Flustered but flattered, she retorts, "And people worry you aren't smart," and agrees to function as Lucy's babysitter.
Lucy is as precocious as Sam is backwards. Sam loves reading Green Eggs and Ham to her, but when she starts reading "real hard" books like Stellaluna, she balks at reading the word "different" because she doesn't want to be smarter than her dad. She knows he's different, "not like other dads", but that's all right with her because he is loving, taking her to the park and to International House of Pancakes (every Wednesday, because "Wednesday is IHOP night").
When they decide to go to Big Boy for a change, Sam causes a disturbance because he cannot get the kind of French pancakes he is accustomed to. At the school Halloween party, he dresses as one of the Beatles but embarrasses his daughter by drawing undue attention. Other kids tease her, calling her dad a "retard". She tells one boy that she is adopted. This causes a crisis at her birthday party, which results in an unexpected visit from a social worker who takes Lucy away. A judge allows him only two supervised, 2-hour visits per week.
Sam's friends recommend that he hire Rita (Michelle Pfeiffer), a lawyer. He shows up at her office and starts spelling out his situation while she juggles coffee orders to her assistant, Patricia. Socially, Sam is rather high-functioning—more together in many ways than his high-class, respected lawyer whose marriage is falling apart and whose son hates her.
Sam surprises Rita at a party. Stunned, she announces that she's taking his case pro bono, because others see her as cold and heartless.
Rita begrudgingly works with Sam to help him keep his parental rights, but chaos arises when Lucy convinces Sam to help her run away from the foster home she is being kept in during the trial. Over the course of the trial, Sam gets a new job at Pizza Hut and Annie leaves her apartment for the first time in years. Sam also helps Rita with her family problems, and helps her to realize how much her son really means to her.
During the trial, however, Sam breaks down, after being convinced that he is not capable of taking care of Lucy.
Meanwhile, Lucy is placed with a foster family who plan to adopt her. Lucy often runs away from her foster parents in the middle of the night to go see Sam, who moved into a larger apartment closer to her.
In the end, the foster family who planned on adopting Lucy lets Sam have custody of her. Sam says that Lucy still needs a mother and asks if the foster mother would like to help raise Lucy. The movie ends with Lucy's soccer game where Sam is the referee. In attendance are Lucy's former foster family, the newly divorced Rita and her son with whom Rita has renewed her relationship, along with Annie and Sam's other friends.
xns: bottom line is in any extent ANYONE CAN BE a parent to a child even if s/he's blind,mute, autistic(like sam) or even you are a BUM or a what so ever type of person! as long as it came inside our heart NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE raising a child! its our own blood and life! Sam isn't as "retarded" as people percieved him. That's what makes this movie A HUWOW! "YOU CANT PULL A GOOD MAN DOWN!" judging a person by its cover is a BIG NO-NO!
this is soooo cute! my cousin's pair of his cute little chukcs! the very first thing that comes out of my mind when i took this picture: "SOON i'll be teaching my little one how to DANCE! and we'll be dancing together all night long!" ooops! i bet s/he'll be a great dancer too like mommy! oh sorry thats over boarding im not a good dancer, i just know how to do my moves when the music is on. (cheeesle)
but seriously! im SO excited to DANCE with my little! :'D
Honey why you calling me so late? It's kinda hard to talk right now. Honey why are you crying? Is everything okay? I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud
Well, my girl's in the next room Sometimes I wish she was you I guess we never really moved on It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those words it makes me weak
And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel
It's funny that you're calling me tonight And, yes, I've dreamt of you too And does he know you're talking to me Will it start a fight No I don't think she has a clue
Well my girl's in the next room Sometimes I wish she was you I guess we never really moved on It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those words it makes me weak
And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel
It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those words it makes me weak
And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel
And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel
but after watching this scene: Woooooho! GO!Callie. Haha. i so LOVE it!!
You took something from me. You stole something from me like a petty little thief. You are the one who should be humiliated. You are the one who should be ashamed. You are the one who should... Don't you dare come to me for forgiveness you traitorous bitch!
Our graduation day is approaching very fast and we're all excited about it! And one of the requirements is to pass are individual write-up's for the Batch08 Year Book. My dear friends asked me if I can do it for them. And here it is:
Joan: MIRA JOY ANN EMPAYNADO She is someone who is always there for you when you needed her most who loves and always willing to extend a hand! She’s a shoulder to cry on! She is a sexy chic and loves the exquisiteness of nature specially the beach.
She stares like hell!! Well if only looks could kill, and she's good at it! But she’s a very humble person being with her is awesome and a blast of fun She has made a deep impact in a lot of people’s heart. She is yes indeed a beautiful person inside and out!
Burn: MARI KRISELDA VELOSO She is a woman of wisdom a lot of people might notice her make up and the way she dress herself but inside that pretty face is her good attributes! she is a very well rounded person
“she thinks before she speak” she knows what to do and not to do. She’s an exceptional dancer! Everyone is stun when she starts showing her moves. She is yes indeed a loving daughter and an exceptional friend! In everything she does, she do it with passion and by heart!
Louan: LOUANN MARALIT She’s a very tall woman! When she’s walking at the school hall way you will surely see her right a way, wearing her pretty face smiling at you! She’s one of the BMA’s volleyball team players proud and glory. When she is inside the court everyone’s screaming her name and when she spikes the ball? It ends it all! the game is over. Louann is the brainy high yet sometimes laid back type of student. She gives her 100% devotion in everything she does. She is a loving daughter to her mom and a good sister to her siblings. You will simply love to be with her because she knows the true meaning of companionship.
Eka: ERIKA CAGATAN Define beauty with brains it’s her Erika. Humility is her great asset. Despite and inspite what she has, who she is and what she has achieved, she has constantly managed to keep her feet flat on the ground and She is a dreamer and a firm believer that you can get anything if you have the will to achieve.She's a responsible student, a warm person. An obedient and a loving daughter an affectionate true friend! Day 1 you will automatically like her and from day 2 onwards, you will just love and adore her.
Bogz: NINA MEILYN CABUAG She’s a very silent person yet she rocks the boat when she starts throwing her punch lines! She’ is witty and fun to be with! She dances so well and she knows how to manage things at all cost of time. She cries when she thinks she needs to let it all out. She’s a good listener and very passionate in everything she does.
My corner:
She is a people person! A very soft hearted friend! She appreciates her life even if it’s not that perfect. Contentment is not the fulfillment of what she wishes for, but appreciation of what she has and who she is with now. She is open to new things and she’s willing to try everything! Bottom line is she knows how to live a happy life.
by: me
We all click together because we’re exquisite in a way that we understand the character of the other! We’re all open to criticisms! This is so true! I bet you wouldn’t want to be listed at Burn’s directory of annoying crap people because she’ll drag down your horn hardcore, while Joan
hates pretentious individuals if she doesn’t like you she’ll make you fell of it! And she will never talk to you either.
Eka is miss congeniality! She is good on talking to people even if she really hates them haha no don’t take this literally okay! She is not a user friendly, it’s just that she’s so nice to everyone that even if she’s mad at them she toned down and shows them that she’s okay! we do love her so much because she’s the best person to talk to in all types of whatever! Meaning (about: School, Love, Family Matters and more) if she says her piece she means every bit of it and you’ll feel it. But what we don’t like much about her is that she is abusing her self too much on everything! (Im referring to those people WHO USES HER!) They just leave it all to Eka (homeworks, school activities name it!) Even if she’s half hearted on it! (as what I've said earlier she’s so nice to everyone that she cant even say NO!) tsk!
We all blessed with beautiful faces but if we don’t have a GOOD CHARATER inside our system that pretty face would just be a mere DISPLAY. People will not even remember your name. Why did I put this one here? Because they’re those people who rip off our nerves but im sorry I can’t drop names here! Haha just don’t duplicate them because it won’t take you to anywhere I SWEAR! Learn not to put on more make up’s and dress extravagant. But learn HOW TO FEED your MINDS instead don’t be too “know it all” type off bitch chic! Haha you’ll end up crying. Poor you Tsk! Remember that it is okay to brag things and all. I used to do that too. I mean everyone does anyhow! But make sure that what’s your bragging about is all true and nothing but the truth! And will benefit the receiver! Haha this is all for Eka for those people who I will probably or maybe hit with this blog. Excuse me! and Im sorry but I don’t care if you’ll react on it! You guys are all fakers and murderers! Badcheeta! If you want to pull my hair go on and do that! Who will look amusing anyhow? Me? My friends? No! Shame on you but I think its ALL YOU. Not even one of us! Im pissed off! and tired hearing a lot of BAD CRITICISMS (slash definitely not true criticisms) addressing to my friends! Like this Bogz imitating Burn like they have same bags, the color of their hair, how she puts on her make up (because she’s not into make up's before) everything! But when Joan and I heard about it. we just LAUGH out LOUD! And says a long huuuuuwhat? They think Bogz is like that? Hardcore! “mga chismosa talaga pambihira” all I can say to YOU PEOPLE is that it is not what you guys are thinking! Okay! BOGZ IS NOT IMITATING BURN! They are two different people with different QUALITY! If she has Burn’s beauty regimens and all it doesn’t mean that she’s praising Burn or if ever so what to you! Does it even change your name? well F.Y.I: THEY BOTH DECIDE TO HAVE THOSE THINGS! Tsk! In fairness to all of you (to that certain group) you guys are really one hell of a talented observant human being! TUGS! Wait! Why don’t you guys MIND YOUR own business and just focus on yourselves instead? I suggest that before speaking or saying bad things to other people, get a huge mirror first and STAND STILL in front of it and LOOK WHO IS TALKING! Uhm…. Enough of this ive said too much already! Haha well im not saying that I don’t gossip but I do it with purposes! And im not it to it! (like you) we all proven that! My point is if Im hearing someone saying like this like that to a certain person I will study the issue first and find it out for myself! (I made a blog about gossiping anyhow it’s in here try to check it out!) now lets talk about Louann well she’s the TALLEST in are group but she’s the youngest and hell yeah! Im the eldest! Yeeehi! That’s why we call her GIANT! Haha she can be your sponge at all cost of time! She’s my uaap partner she’s crazy about my cousin haha sssh! Ops! Sorry slip of the tongue. Peace! Haha
Well to wrap this thing up i LOVE my friend’s BIG time and whatever characteristics we may all have either be it good or bad never in any account will I trade them. Each one of them has their own area of expertise of being a good person that will make a difference in your life! And well this is indeed TRUE because it changes my Life BIG time when I met and be friends with them. GOOD SOULS are hard to find nowadays and I can attest to that! And I’m excessively blessed to have and be loved by them. Yeeeehi!
WHO GREETED ME FIRST? my B E H-BY details from my phone: 11:50 PM September 19, 2007 "Baby hapi birthday! i love you so much" :') we're like texting from 9pm upto 2am and that message from him START'S MY B I R T H D A Y!!
September 20, 2007(Thursday)
MYBIRTHDAY! my dear friends S U R P R I S E D!!!! me with this and I’m sooooooo TOUCHED! they made me cry! (tears of bliss) And those letters is a HUWHAT! (from joan,eka,lou,burn,myk and more of them!!!) =’D "best actress sila that day winner!!! and it really works!.." THANK YOU SO MUCH! that moment my heart wants to JUMP UP SIDE DOWN!
MY B-DAY WHEREABOUTS: I bought can goods, coffee, milk, instant noodles for “LOLO” (the beggar outside our school..) But I wasn’t able to give it to them because our classmates told us that they are used by those JERK syndicates instead I bought “LOLO” a lunch meal from our school canteen.:’-( (im devastated) How can people do such things like that tsk!!! BADCHEETA! tugs....
But when we went to E.Rodriguez (beside trinity) I spotted a Mother and son... (Homeless) Immediately I went out of the car and gave it to the mother. as she says "naku! salamat ng marami iha!" that BIG SMILES FROM THEM MEANS A LOT! :) wew...
after we went to Mt.Carmel near St.Paul and I prayed while walking there’s an old lady selling flowers... instead of getting the flowers I just gave her 50 pesos and the old lady told us that she will use it to buy her medicine! Aw!! And that is a D A Y! Wee... :’)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!
doing little things to other people means a lot to me... even if i dont hear them saying "thank you khryssy" all the time. but instead giving me their warmth smile,and a big hug really melts my HEART with FULL OF JOY!
atleast at the end of the DAY even if fate is so unfair with my life lately i can say that inspite those tears i've cried! im still happy and greatful that i HAVE THIS KIND OF PEOPLE WHO LOVES ME DEARLY and will never leave my side no matter what happens!
IT'S MY GREEEN PARTY! September 22,2007 (Saturday) I celebrated my 22nd Birthday at (Little Island Metrowalk) with my friends and with my special guest! of course my beh-by! i really didnt expect his presence though he keeps on telling me that he'll gonna do everything just to be there! and as what he had promised me! HE'S THERE!
Last night “cc” and I clash again!!! (Because of are undying issues!!) I cried a lot and he says things that really break my heart!!! He told me that im always crying, that I don’t have a peace of mind because im thinking a lot of things!!! and more of his upsetting words. I can’t help myself but just CRY! while he’s talking. I admit that expressing myself when im hurt especially when im mad! Is HARD for me to do, (I keep my mouth shut! and CRY! to relieve the pain im feeling) Even if I want to burst it out! And explode I choose to stay quiet, not to finish or dodge the issue but I just don’t want to say a word that might hurt him back.(I think first before I speak) But I can’t take his words any longer... So I decided to just hang-up and end our conversation instead!
After that conversation with him I still end up crying im soooooo mad at him, that very moment! I hate him so much! (And yet despite the fact, I can’t say it to him directly!) Not because im scared of him but it’s my way of respecting him and our relationship! I love him and I don’t want to take it against him but??? How can he be so rude to me last night! Later after my long running sob mode. I immediately went to bed and before sleeping I prayed to God and asked for some signs!!! Gosh!!!!! Unconsciously after praying I fell asleep.
3:30 am... a call from our land phone woke me up and out of the blue I got up quickly and answered that call. I saw “cc’s” land phone digits through are caller I.D My heart beats faster!! And my hands are shaking! Because im expecting to hear “someone’s” voice!!! Im surprised!! Hearing “cc’s” voice!!! It’s him!!! Not “that “someone I anticipate” geeee! Watah!
He says THAT HE IS SORRY(I will not elaborate everything that we’ve talked about! It’s all settled anyhow.) im so touched! For whatever its worth! “It’s my baby talking now... “
We hang-up with “I love you and sorry baby...” After that extreme moment! I prayed again! and asked myself "Is it the sign im asking from God..." :')
We (Me, Joan, Bogz, and Burn) decided to try this fortune teller. Our source: (Milena) she’s been telling us before that this one is “incredible” proven and tested over the years, because even her sister Micah and her cousin Sheng will testify to that!
----> OH MY GULAY! Watah!! I'm daze! I’m sorry but I want to keep it (Privately) Except for those people who I want to know, every bit of what she had told me(Tita Ingrid "the fortune teller") “about almost a little of my everything!” Wew... We all had FUN though! But MINE was a blow up! Goosebumps! haha
HOLY CRAP! HOLY GHOST! GOLLY GHOST!! i LOVE this scene from season 3 of grey's anatomy this is oh my gulay!! :') LISTEN! HE'S A HARDCORE HEART MAN!!!
cristina...
i could promise to hold you and to cherish you. i could promise to be there in sickness and in health. i could say till death do us part.. but i wont.
those vows are for optimistic couples-- the ones full of hope. i dont stand here on my wedding day, optimistic or full of hope. i am not optimistic, i am not hopeful.
i am sure.. i am steady. and i know that i am a heart man.
take them apart... put them back together... i hold them in my hands. i am a heart man.
so this i am sure.. you are my partner, my lover, my very best friend. my heart-- MY HEART beats for you.
and on this day, the day of our wedding.. i promise you this i promise you-- to lay my heart in the palm of your hands. i promise you, ME.
Getting married is once in a lifetime decision for many people. When people wish to get married, consistently all of them expect a full life together. Very few would think of marriage as a short-term exercise. That’s why, it is very much necessary that all aspects of a life together be fully analyzed before tying the knot. Usually men and women tend to have different perspectives about married life.
Who fits well? When you and your partner love each other, you connect well and have a rather healthy relationship... But is your partner the one you should marry? Being a great boyfriend or girlfriend is different than being great spouse material. Many people assume that just because they get along great with their partners as boyfriend and girlfriend, that they will automatically end up married, living happily ever after. The sooner you find this out, the better, because it will really prevent a lot of confusion and heart ache later. However, even if you have been with your partner for many years, it does not mean you should stay in the relationship simply because you have been together for a long time. The first thing you need to do is understand what your goals are with your relationship. This way you will be fully aware of your expectations and standards and can then focus on your partner and see whether you two are on the boat or not. So, how can you tell whether your partner is the marriage “TYPE” Well, the signs are very clear to read, if you are just willing to see the truth and nothing but the truth, even if it is not always what you want. The first step in seeing this truth, is throwing your blinders away and to observe all angles of your relationship not just the wonderful parts that you want to see. If you are the type of person who would like to settle down and get married when the time is right, then you are naturally going to want a partner who will have the same dreams and goals as you when it comes to love and relationships. While this is only natural, you should not assume that just because you are involved with your partner in a serious relationship that it will end in marriage. This is exactly why you must talk about this with your partner once your relationship reaches a comfortable enough point to talk about marriage and commitment.
The best thing to do I guess! Is to observe your partner’s behavior around the topic of marriage and then trust your instincts. Do not rob yourself of true happiness by telling yourself that he or she will eventually come around or that you can change him, because this usually never works and you will only end up waiting around for a man who will never give you what you truly want. If your partner ends up not being the marrying type, then you should try and move on as soon as possible, so that you can move on and find someone who will see love the same way you do. If you try to adapt to your partner’s non marrying ways, you may be okay for a while because of the love you feel for him or her, but you would eventually grow tired of it and would resent your partner and yourself for not accepting the truth a long time ago.
For me Getting married is a beautiful life experience, but only if it is with a person who wants to be in it just as eagerly as you do. WHO WILL BE MY GROOM? It’s too early to tell… I don’t know either! All I know is that SOON ill be walking down the aisle… with him (whoever he is) I know GOD will choose the right person for me to hold on to for the rest of my life. Having a beautiful children and a wonderful Family with him will be a blessing and a reason for my breathing. Way way back when I was 10 years younger than my age now I’ve attended and became a part of my Tita Lara’s Wedding Entourage as her flower girl. Right there and then I injected to myself that if ever ill be getting married I want this church to witness my very special day... Where? at San AgustÃn Church in Intramuros
Maybe i’ll find the cycles end right back where i began, but come this time around i’ll have someone to hold my hand, who prays for me who is there for me, who sends me love and light, teaches me how to fight! i still choose to walk with him! (maybe in a different path) ...because that’s the only way we’re going to make it through this storm, where ignorance is common sense and senseless is the norm. i hope god will leads us the right way....
This is a major issue that I have to deal with for just about anything I do. I’m the kind of person that gets so involved in what I’m doing that I have trouble sleeping and sometimes forget to eat.
And when it all builds to a peak, I crash!! Burnout is really a result of the combined effects of all my issues. its as if, each one slowly chips away until there’s nothing left to keep me going.
Basically I don't give a fcuk what people think about me what you see is what you get I say what's on my mind, and I'm not phony I'm not easily offended I live life one day at a time… There's no need to plan the future, because the future is unpredictable. Really!!!!
I love drinking (anything haha) I’m a chocolate/sweet freak!! I hate people who are posers...Just be yourself!! I'm living life to the fullest (but knows that there are certain boundaries) You never know, you might die tomorrow. Tugss.. An atheist girl who is very religious I'm a so called “one ugly duckling” (back in my awful day’s hihi) Self-conscious but doesn't care how i look like! If this is my face and my body structure then so be it. Hehe
I haven’t met my biological father. since birth(All I know is his name) I’m a blabbermouth but i could keep a secret I could be obnoxious, annoying, and out of control But I could be sweet, charming, friendly, and quiet!! (Especially when I’m hurt!) I'm a dancer by heart. And a frustrated soccer player yeeehaa! I’m inlove (im happy) but at the same time I’m in pain.. Hanging out with friends is my obsession (i love them BIG) I'M SO HARDCORE! And lastly I'm worse at what I do best...Yet for this gift I still feel so blessed... ;)
I love ketchup... Its yuckeeeee for some people but im loving more my FOODEEES when there's a ketchup on it.. --Fish --Sinigang --Egg,Hotdog,Ham, Bacon... --Adobo --Beef steak --Mechado --Menudo --Puchero (Etc...anything goes with ketchup!!) Im a weirdo in almost everything! and I don’t care I love to eat veggies with ketchup! I love mushrooms WITH KETCHUP AND SOY SAUCE!! I put hot sauce on my carbonara, (this is a huwhaat) I can eat my nachos with chocolate bars, ketchup and hot sauce on it. That’s eew! I know... nyahaha
WHAT I DON’T LIKE TO EAT ? TINOLANG MANOK!! FOR SOME THEY CALL IT! (Chicken with spinach and gourd in a ginger-based broth) ITS SOUNDS soo very yumeee isnt?! but for me That’s eeenky winky!! promise! because of the chicken skin. Its been years now since the last time I chomp “tinolang manok” its not me being “maarte” or whatever but I really don’t like to see chicken skins “ng me sabaw...wew!” Hehe HAPPY EATING!!
Try to clasp your hand together ... If your left thumb goes over the right thumb then you are said to a “MIND OVER HEART” person. You think before doing or saying anything.
A mind over heart person obviously follows her brain than her heart. She lets her mind speak for herself. She’s rational, levelheaded and sensible .all the choices she makes are based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. She does not decide on impulse but instead, THINKS of the consequences of all her action. In short she is a SUPER WOMAN!!
Super heroes fall in love. Does mind over heart person fall in love too? Yes she does. Actually she chooses to love. For a person with this philosophy, everything happens based from the choices she makes not from chance. She wants to love… she knows the joys of loving but she also knows the hardships she could encounter loving someone. Even though love is staring in her face, she should not seize the moment. She should give up love for some more important things.
A mind over heart person is a good leader and adviser. She can direct by using her heart but lets her brain do most of the work. She knows her limitations and capabilities. She makes sure she is on the right track and thinks of the consequences of her actions and decisions.
A mind over heart person is not the happiest among people. Because of her philosophy, she tends to be true to herself sometimes. She suppresses her feelings. But despite this, a mind over heart person is still the one who gains success, because they know their battle grounds. They could wait. They could sacrifice and the could let go. There’s a saying that goes... “the heart has a mind the brain knows nothing of.” Its true and I could testify to this. But think about it, why did GOD create a man with a brain on a higher position than the heart?
The mind is still supreme. Technically without the brain the heart would not beat. Without the brain the body would be like a rock, stagnant and empty, unable to feel love, and even love at all. So with this lesson in mind, all of us must be true to OUR HEARTS but in coordination with our heart, we should let our mind speak as well.
Gossip is any form of communication that is hurtful about another. It also speaks a part about the person doing the gossiping. Its is like a wildfire. It gets out of control and spread quickly. Most people gossip because they want to make themselves look good by slicing up another. I’d like to think I don’t do, but I plead for spreading some.
Gossiping is not just a GIRL THING! Yes we ladies have a reputation for being too chatty and unreliable. I even heard guys say that girls can never truly be friends. That one will eventually betray the other. (That’s a different issue anyhow….tsk!) Well I guess we girls are gifted with a more persuasive tongue and that we will say anything provided that the persons back is turned. But hey, female gossip is just more visible to the eyes and ears than the male. Men are just likely to gossip as women. Probably they call them “rap session”
Ignoring such issues amongst the two genders, my point is that everyone GOSSIPS! Whatever you might call it. Gossip seems to be one of those life’s distraction and guilty pleasures. I certainly agree…
Remember when elders say” IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY, THEN DON’T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL” Well for most of us now, I think shutting up is really a hard thing to do.
So WHY do we do it? Sometimes described as “Small Talk” it is a way to pass time, it is socialization in the easiest form. Who really wants to talk about the political problems of our country when there’s an exciting rumor to pass around? Most of us view gossip as a harmless thing. Maybe it’s just naturally normal for some not unless THEY ARE THE ONE BEING TALKED ABOUT. Whatever the cause, I confess that if gossiping is made illegal, most of us might be in jail. I like to talk WE ALL DO, but maybe WE SHOULD BE A LITTLE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT WE SAY.
“GOSSIPING IS JUST LIKE MURDERING!” We must be careful not to murder someone with our tongue. WORDS ARE REALLY POWERFUL and it can DEFINITELY DESTROY A PERSON in just ONE chit chatting…
But I won’t lie, the next time I hear the words…”Did you hear about…? I’ll still be curious.
Inside Entrep Lab.... This was written on the board early this afternoon hehe.... uhmmmm! When Joan and I read it! It reminds us of "someone" nyahahaha! Who? SECRET!! Note: U-S-E-R PEOPLE S-U-C-K-S! YES IN DEED! THEY REALLY ARE! TSK! TSK! AGREE?! HARDCORE! B A D C H E E T A OUT! Tuuuugs! Get some place to live in! Y O U dont belong here... this is planet earth. and where are you from ANYHOW?!
Am I still going to waste my time on someone who doesn’t appreciate me d way I should be appreciated? Am I going to settle for mediocrity? for being just HIS second option, for being the one who's just fun to be with, for being the one who's always there desperately waiting for him... For mere concern or pity or for someone who likes me just because he knows he's got the power to break me again for the 2nd time. Am I going to settle because deep down... I know who I am? And I know with out a doubt that I deserve at least someone "BETTER" if not the "BEST”
Let me share something I kept back for almost 3years of believing into something I shouldn’t!! Anyhow whoever you are your one hell of a big Pinocchio! Toink! Run Forrest Run hihi faster…..
In my 22 years of existence, I’ve bump into a lot of people, be friends with them and later on love them so much. I become so addicted to good souls SPECIALY THE REAL ONES...
But I wonder why some people love’s to wreck a life of someone they barely know... PATHETIC people is all around the corner. Trying to be someone they’re not. Oh that’s freaky huh?! Shame on them hihi
A friend warn me “don’t do this and do that…you’ll get fuck up and busted because of KARMA Khryssy” and so I agree... hands up to those people who never utter bad things to others. But we’re all humans not perfect... we perceive a lot of imperfections around us everyday so i don’t want to be hypocrite saying stuffs that I’m a goody good or whatever!! Because I’m not I commit lots/tons of mistakes in the past and learned from them. But I’m proud to say that I’m a REAL one though... hihi better ask my friends about it if I don’t like you i wouldn’t waste my time.. “You’re just a big pain in the ass geeee” weeeew! Now im talking… uhmm big bang!! Apir! Weee! haha
Uhmm a hypocrite or an impostor F-A-K-E one pretends to have a good quality which s/he knows that “s/he does not possess.” The turpitude and wickedness of hypocrisy are obvious to everybody!!! Agree? (I know someone actually) haha for me “as the hypocrite is justly detested and despised, so should the liar be….” As no honest man would consent to play the hypocrite, so no honest man will ever be guilty of a lie… really!!! (Thanks to my morality class) haha...
I believe that a PRUDENT MAN only speaks about what they should speak about!! And what they say should be understood with that reservation. DID YOU GET IT?! FALSE TALK SHIT CAN KILL YOU… hihi so you better get a life gee! Deception involves a sender intentionally trying to get someone to believe something that the sender knows to be false. There are many possible forms of deception because liars can apply multiple strategies simultaneously. Believe me I ought to know!! haha Saying something that could mean two or more things, intentionally concealing information, giving false information and altering the amount of information that should be given! Tsk! Bad….
Well I suggest to impede doing FREAK SHOWS! It sucks and annoys a lot of people especially the GOOD ones they don’t DESERVE SUCH TREATMENTS! I remember one incident in my life that somebody DID control everything... (Talking shits) etc... I regret giving that person my 101% kindness I shouldn’t have listened and Pity her either…Ssh! Too bad Karma hits back a hundred gee... so I suggest you PRAY! GOD IS WATCHING YOU all the time. You’ll never know what you’ll be receiving anyhow! tsk tsk bottomline Good Karma is coming my way... Soon Godspeed! “By Me”
Where: Rockwell (taken last June 07,2007) June 09,2007 "i'm having my eating disorder thingy again this is not a drama this is for real gee.. and i hate it! (i really cant eat and sleep well!) too bad because im loosing weight and its not healthy.eew! early this morning i was rushed to the hospital because of severe headache + hallucination tuuggs! thanks Burneee for reminding that i should be taking good care of myself more .." WHY DID I SAID SO: uhmm well she's always hitting me with her hurtful words (for me to become conscious on whats happening around me.) everytime we're having our heart to heart talk. i swear to gahd she's the best person to talk to. but this line really puts me on my "WARP MODE" again while she uttered this line last thursday "mare hindi ka ba naaawa sa sarili mo.." i kept quiet and answered her with just one big smile on my face. (shame on me) shit! happens all the time! too bad it is always happening to me over and over again. Well the rest is a big question mark hanging on my head now... "what to do? what to say? and what to feel? is that person really worthy of my .... sigh! i dont know... xns: Burn Thank you for that word of wisdom! (as always) **sob** ssshh! i hope youre getting what im trying to put stress here. Lets call him "BIG BAD BEAR" (its complicated! very... wink!) tuuggs! STUPIDITY MODE mare! i love you big! tsup!
The way she sees things in her life and how well she handles them! Hands up to you achie. I know you’ve been thru a lot! And im so proud that you turn out to be a very well rounded person... I met her like 3 years ago..Uhmm but all I know about her is she has a unique name “Tammy" Heard some stories about “her and Xave” but aside from that nothing else follows… After 3years thank you that there was this (y.m thing and multiply site) we got the chance to keep in touch again! And surprisingly! that there was this “make your own havaianas” at Rockwell last march we got to bump with each other again hehe I was so shocked! When I saw her infront of me hehe over and over again!! Hihi and well the rest is a history!!! Weee!! We discovered that we’re so much identical (with our things, the way we act on something and how hard headed Virgo are. Hihi and a lot more...)
I can say that she’s an achiever! A keen young professional/business woman, daddy’s girl! A dreamer! ...aside from her very beautiful features, she’s so smart but down to earth,(she’s not that “know it all” type of person) soft hearted ,a sister and an authentic lover... yes indeed she’s all that and more! Being with her is a BLAST of fun!! No dreary moment with her. She’s a good conversationalist!
Achie Snow! For the NTH time thank you! for giving me the chance to know you better and I appreciate everything! Really!!! since day one! And for accepting my warmth friendship! You’re not just a true friend but a sister that i know i can lean on to! You’ve proven that already! Hand me over your trust and I will give you a superb friendship ever! Do I still have to say that I love you big time achie? Let’s just say that im so blessed having you in my so called “freaky life” your existence really make a difference!
For the record she really brings out the best in me! (i hope youre getting what i'm trying to put stress here achie..) more years to come for us!! no more drama! hehe i'll be here...(always) sob mode or happy mode Wee!
